All advice I received for bar study strategy said that you eliminate all obligations, responsibilities, and distractions from your life before BarBri starts. Bar study, I was told, will demand every brain cell and every free minute of your life. On the first day of BarBri a rep from the company even told us that we shouldn’t take time to grocery shop or get hair cuts and that we should basically outsource every aspect of our lives to our personal support system of friends and family.
I took this advice to heart. I prepped my spouse for months and months before hand that I wouldn’t be available to help with family responsibilities. I warned my family that they wouldn’t be hearing from me and that I would be absent from all events for three months. I was ready to disengage from life with the exception of my books, notes, and practice tests.
Here’s the thing with this strategy, I am better at juggling four balls than three. I perform better when I am busy and multi-tasking. I think that many women are like that.