You Don't Always Get What You Want

As an older student, people always ask me:  "Why did you decide to go to law school?" I explain how my skills and abilities match those required by lawyers; and the profession will allow me to help others and make a difference.  That response is not untrue; just incomplete. 

I started law school to regain my confidence in my own merit as an individual.

Contrary to lip service, society does not value homemakers’ contributions. We admire money and tangible accomplishments.  After leaving a successful career for the opportunity to live abroad, I focused my energy on kids, husband, and home.  Ten years later, I craved acknowledgment for my abilities, and law school satisfied that need.

Recovering my self-respect proved more problematic. Never have I worked so hard to be rejected and unsuccessful.  This painful ‘reality check’ will further my personal growth, but will my diminished confidence impair my success as a lawyer? 

Lawyering and Living for Less: Networking on a Budget

As a graduating 3L in a dreary economy, finding that first job is more than ever about who you know and not (only) what you know.  Networking is essential to job success, especially when you're just entering the legal field and don't have the contacts of a more established professional.  Yet when you're living off student loans and work-study, it's difficult to rationalize spending your precious extra cash on drinks at a fancy event or posh business cards.  Here are a few tips on getting your name - and yourself - out there without breaking the bank.

Card yourself

• It is debated whether law students need business cards.  Regardless of your opinion on the matter, a prepared card with your contact information is an invaluable tool at a networking event.  But until you have something more substantial to put on your business cards than "J.D. expected, May 2010", you shouldn't spend a lot.  Vistaprint regularly sends out email offers for free business cards and similar products, so get on their email list and all you'll pay is shipping!

Make your web presence known

• There are seemingly endless opportunities for online networking these days, and websites such as LinkedIn can be a great resource.  It is usually free to set up a basic profile on any of these sites, but, as a result, a lot of people do it.  The challenge is making yourself stand out: add a picture, get recommendations, and make sure your profile stays updated.  You can also control what shows up when you're googled: set up a profile on Google Profiles to make sure your web presence is what you want it to be.

Meet up

• Happy hour is ingrained in our professional culture as a place where employees of all rank can go after work to relax and mingle with their peers.  Yet it goes without saying that, when you're not working, there aren't many opportunities for an after work happy hour.  Therefore, when you're invited, either through a volunteer position, clerkship, or student/young professional organization, you need to take advantage, regardless of the status of your checking account.  However, the very nature of happy hour means a high likelihood of food and drink specials.  To avoid asking your server about those specials in front of the people you're trying to impress, do your homework before you go, using sites such as Thrifty Hipster.  And don't try to impress your cohorts with your extensive knowledge of top shelf gin: order a rail drink or the house wine, drink it slow, and then switch to water.  Not only will this keep it cheap, it'll also save you from the potential embarrassment of a few too many drinks.

After the jump, tips on saving cash while following up with networking contacts and taking advantage of bar association resources and a creative, free way to network:

The other women's career

Reading many of these discussions about women dropping out of the legal profession, especially out of big firms, inspired me to look up statistics on women law professors, which as we know are only slightly easier to find than women Senators. If wanting to be a good mother is driving women out of legal practice, how does that explain the shameful dearth of female law professors, particularly tenured ones? An academic schedule seems much more conducive to having a family, and might, in theory, be more about intellectual achievement and less about the aggressiveness that we associate with large firms. With the high numbers of women graduating from law school, why don't the ranks of our own law faculties reflect the student bodies?

Book ToDo: The Undomestic Goddess

Okay, so I'm calling this a "ToDo" instead of a "Review". First, I don't want to seem too serious about this. I'm no literary critic. Heck, I don't even read that much besides my law school textbooks these days. Second, I don't get any benefit from writing this ToDo. I had to purchase the book like anyone else but you could probably check it out from the library. Summer is approaching so I thought I'd pass on a fun book that I read last summer and thoroughly enjoyed.