Submitted by Ashley Dawn Rut...
I have not posted for several months. My life has been turned upside-down, and I have never been happier. For one, I got engaged to my soulmate in December, and we are planning an October wedding. Secondly, with his support and encouragement and after deep thought, I decided to pursue my real dream. . . to go out on my own.
I joined a friend from law school that is running a small, successful law firm. His partner was taking the California bar exam, and he wanted me to join in as a named partner. Our law firm name - Campinha-Bacote & Chang, LLC - is now Campinha-Bacote & Starling, LLC. Starling reflects my soon-to-be married last name.
This was an extremely difficult decision for me. I've been practicing a couple of years, and, like many others, all of my professional and personal accomplishments have been achieved as Ashley Rutherford. Additionally, being independent and proud of who I am, I have had a hard time giving up that part of me. I could hyphenate, but if I did, my signature block would be so long, I would literally have to start it in the center of the page. So, after careful consideration, I have decided to assume my husband's last name and after a small transition time, drop "Rutherford".